While a collar is beautiful to look at, what really makes the collar a part of your play is a leash. The leash is what allows the Dominant to actually bring the collar into your play time. Your submissive won’t be able to go anywhere with your hand holding onto that leash. With one sharp tug, they will feel the power and control you have over them.
If you want give your submissive a collar, then give yourself a leash to take control of that collar.
This heavy duty high quality leash with grade A quality leather while become an extension of your hand.